Why

Why is it that when a man doesn't stick around and be a father to his kids he is a deadbeat dad and loser but if a man wants to stick around and be a father to his kids the mother will go out of her way to fight him in court for what he rightfully deserves? You see I am not a man but a woman, a mother. The father of my son is the best dad to my son and his brother. My man has a five year old son and this boy worships his father. Probably because when his son was a baby it was the father who got up everynight with his son. It was the father who fed, bathed, and put his son to sleep and then went to work while the mother did nothing. Now don't get me wrong most of the time the roles in this story are reversed. Most of the times it is the mother on a solo mission to raise her kids but this time it was different. You would think that she would be greatful to have someone like that in her son's life. But of course not this dumb bitch wants to ignore her son, go clubbing, get drunk, try to be a player and basically a bad mom. Now does it sound fair to you that she should fight the baby's father in court for a son that she neglects so bad? I don't think so. What's even more messed up is that a judge can decide that just because she gave birth to her son that she is an actual good mother and should have custody of him. Forget the fact that the father was being both mother and father to his son since day one. So if you are pregnant out there and your baby's father is trying to do right and be a responsible parent...let him. Don't "punish" him by not letting him see his kids just because he is getting on with his life. Don't take his kids away because he has a new life now. How is that his fault? It's not. It's your fault for being a dumb bitch and taking your children's father away for dumb reasons. Remember all this coming from a female.